慢慢等

在美国，番茄都是在未成熟的情况下摘下。之后运到别的国家，在运输的过程，番茄都是青色的，所以这些番茄才不会那么容易腐烂。当店主买了番茄，他们就会喷CO2在番茄，让他们迅速的成熟，转红。当然，相比起来，这些的番茄没有比那些在树上成熟的来的甘甜。

成长是急不来的。而是一步一步，一天一天累积的。而你的个性也是由你的性格一天一天的磨练出来的。你的习惯可以塑造你的性格。成长没有short cut。你需要每一天每一天的去磨练。

为什么改变需要等？

因为，我们是slow learner。

因为，我们要丢掉很多的不好的老我。

因为，我们惧怕面对自己。

因为，成长过程不是甘甜的。

因为，习惯是需要时间培养的。

所以，心灵的成熟不是一朝一夕可以培养的。我们需要慢慢地等。

反思：我们是否太心急看待一些事物的转变？或在感情上太心急？

游记

星期四那天，做完了该做的东西，大约五点多，就和之间约好的国栋和志鹏出去。还有两位他们的朋友也一起出去。他们到了马大pick up我后，第一站就是吃晚餐。想地点想爆了头，最后，大家一致决定吃福建面（不是槟城的福建虾面）。

原本，打算晚餐后到klcc去逛逛。谁知，天不作美，下起大雨。计划不能如图进行，只好改变地点，去1 utama。

第一次陪我男朋友以外的男生逛街。^_^

我们从old wing 走到new wing再走到new wing为了寻找一间韩国土产店。

那间店就位于new wing靠近cold storage哪里。

1 utama开始有了圣诞气氛。我们的好“摄”之徒-国栋。拿起了相机，开始了摄影工作。

这就是我的taman mate, home town mate, 大学mate，兼我好朋友们的好朋友-国栋。

UTM 帮的合照。

于我们同行的3大猛男。

之后，这帮精力充沛的"年轻人” 觉得the night still young。既然提议去唱K. 马上立刻，到顶楼查了neway的价钱。但是，太贵了。

突然，想到了“大嘴叭”马上拨电话给我朋友问他怎样去。

接着，就立刻赶去check价钱。

到达了，大嘴叭。

查了价钱，还蛮合理。一个人RM24，唱3粒钟，包埋2杯水，一张会员卡。

男人们的忘我境界。


“大嘴叭”的rules and regulations.

还有，最后的大合照。

心中的偶像

人们常说当你崇拜一个人是你会活得像他。自然而然的，你的穿衣方法，发型，说话方式等也会因着他而改变。

比如说周杰伦，他的粉丝们或许会留像他那样的刘海，站立的方式。而别人看到你时就能辨认你是周杰伦的粉丝。

同样的，如果你今天专注与耶稣基督。你会活得更像他。你会学习基督的样式。

WWJD – What would Jesus do？这是一个很好的提醒。时常监察自己的行为。让我们活得更像基督。

反思：谁是你心中的偶像呢？在世人的眼中，他们在你的生命看到了谁？

全然为你

今天是友族同胞的牺牲日（Hari Raya Korban）或古尔邦节。而他们将会屠宰牲口，将肉食不仅留给自己家，而且要分送给穷人，要确保所有的回教徒都要有一份肉食。。

首先，先和大家解释什么是古尔邦节。

据说古尔邦节的宰牲，起源于古代先知易卜拉欣的传说。阿拉为了考验阿拉伯人和以色列人的祖先伊布拉欣，命令他把儿子杀死献祭，他完全服从，将儿子带到耶路撒冷的石头上（现在作为岩石清真寺内的圣物），准备将儿子杀死烧掉献祭给阿拉。阿拉达到考验他的目的，命令天使及时地送来一只黑羊代替伊布拉欣献给阿拉。

让我想起主耶稣的献上。主耶稣成为了我们的大祭司。耶稣基督来到这个世上完成了我们的救赎，教我们的罪得以赦免，并永远与神同在。主耶稣一次的献上等于永远的献上。

无罪的耶稣为了世人的罪，而献上己身，成为完全的救赎祭。那么如此伟大的爱，因此，回应神的爱，我们更有理由将我们自己的生命献上，完完全全的交托给主掌管。

这时，我的千千静听正好播出这首歌。-全然为你

“我將生命 交在你手中 獻上一切 給你 主
我的世界 全在你手 我屬於你 到永遠
耶穌我心相信你 耶穌我心屬於你
活著 全都為了你
歌唱也為了你
全然為你”

生死

人的生死掌握在神的手中。

最近，我的伙伴，也是我大学时的同学。她是位天主教徒。她与亲戚们的关系都很亲密。

今天的农历新年，不幸的她表哥因为心脏病，安息主怀了。

不久后，他的外甥女又因为一些缘故，成了植物人一段时间。

最近，很不幸的，她的表姐也患了末期癌症。

她曾经埋怨为什么这一切连续不断的发生在他的家庭。我想要安慰她，帮她。用圣经的话语帮她。当我和他分享时，他都明白，他都了解。只不过情绪不知道该怎么反映。

我写这篇，是想要说，生命是脆弱的。

离开自己的驾驶盘，让神去掌管我们的生命。因为，我们的生命是神说特别拣选的。

因为凡要救自己生命的，必丧掉生命，
凡为我丧掉生命的，必得着生命。
{马太福音十六章廿五节}

保守你的心

你要保守你心，勝過保守一切，因為一生的果效，是由心發出。（箴四23）

Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. （Proverbs 4:23)

主啊保守我的心

，胜过保守我的一切

．因为一生的果效

，是由我的心里发出

．哦恳求主洁净我心

，为我造一颗清洁的心

．恳求圣灵住在我里面

，使我重新有正直的灵

庆生

今天是你的生日。第一次以普通朋友的身份祝贺你。

感觉怎样呢？

没什么感觉也。

只是多年前set了的reminder 在半个前，每5分钟响一次。因为曾经的我怕错过了你的生日。

或许等你生日的来临已变成了一种习惯。

感情会变，可是习惯难改。

Assignment 2: Love

At the end of the relationship, only I realized the love that I thought is Love is not Love.

Love comprised of forgive, understand, care, faith, protect and others. But I used to think that Love is as long as the person is beside you, you can hug him, can kiss him. But that is not true love. Yes, of course all that intimate action will trigger your heartbeat to beat faster, but that is because of touching that course the hormone to increase the heartbeat. I would say is a part of love.

But real love is without touching, you can feel protected, joy, cared, love.

Always talk and share with your partners. Understand them. Understand the way he wants to be loved

男人与女人

男人女人被吸引因为我们的不同。男女的不同让我们受伤害。

1. 男人所需是被尊重-肯定。

女人所需的被爱-关怀。

2. 男人是主动者 - 主动去爱，主动去领导

女人是回应者 - 顺服

-->一个愿意顺服的是有上帝的女人

-->一个愿意顺服的是有智慧的女人

3. 欣赏异性和我们不一样的地方

-->不是去改变他

4. 男人不过问别人的事

女人需要详细的解释

5. 男人看事情不斤斤计较

女人关心细节

Assignment 1: Independent

Termination of relationship followed by loneliness. Take it easy and learn to be independent.

Life is s test, life is a trust.

GOD had put this test on me, yet, I have to trust GOD for he is the provider.

My students and I

I've 2 tuition kids for almost one year. By appearance they are very cute and nice looking just like their mother. But, inside, they are very naughty.

As usual, I went to tuition today. 5pm I reached their home and waiting for the elder sister to come. Elder sister came to me and say: "Teacher, can Claire go first?" "Either of u both come first will do, discuss with her and talk to her nicely" I replied.

Once the sister went up stairs and open the door, Claire started to shout and cry. The maid went up and brought her down. She was pissed and keep dialing to her mom and intended to make some complains.

After a while, she talk to me, she said :"I hate you, you told my daddy that I'm eating during tuition lesson." Great, you ate during tuition class and your maid went and told and the opened chocolate wrapping, nuts that thrown away that prove to your daddy YOU'RE EATING CHOCOLATE during tuition time. And now, you put all the blames on me? I feel sad that children nowadays they are not responsible on the things they did nor they said.

After the tuition done, she showed me the badges that she did in church, "Our God is so Powerful", "God is trustworthy" and so. She asked me, why God don't want to help her? God helps everyone except her? She said, "because God don't want to help me because I'm naughty and now because God don't want to help me that's why I'm naughty."

"God don't want to help her because she is naughty and now because God don't want to help her that's why She is naughty"

Children is very innocent, but these words reminds me again, did I put the blame on others?

After we sinned, do we say, "yes, I did it" or we will think " No, No, is Satan the one who make me fall."

Satan will do all the thins to lure us and set us apart from GOD, like how the snake tempted Eve and Adam in Genesis.

But the person who decide and conduct the sins.

Before putting blame on others, look into our heart, who actually cause IT.

长得丑不是罪

相信很多人都很注重外表。每当看到镜子，都会照一照。你是不是其中一位呢？如果你是，恭喜你。你对自己的还算满意。记得我在小学，中学时，非常害怕照镜子。因为，看到镜子里的我好丑，有着一幅月亮脸。

样貌同时也是大家的热门话题。男人们喜欢看美女，女人们则喜欢看帅哥。有哪个年轻人不希望自己的另一半是个帅哥或美女？带出去多威风。

长辈们也在讨论，谁的女婿/媳妇有前途，外貌又好看。

天底下，哪里有那么多帅哥/美女？

有些人会觉得自己的另一半见不得人，不要带出去丢人现眼。如果你觉得他不能见人，那你为什么当初选择他？

有些长辈希望孩子找到一个好看的。如果长得好看，可是对你孩子不好的，你要吗？

每个人，都是上帝独特的创造。我们要尊重他人的长相。长得丑并不是罪。然而，也有好处呢。

1。 不怕有外遇

2。 老时改变不大

我只想说，长得丑并不是罪。 最重要，是内在的美。不许批评上帝美好的创造。

My concerns

1. When I've decided to further master, I received a lots of interview invitation, choking myself to reject them.

2. When I've a big bunch of friends, I am unable to join them always for food explore around PJ.

3. When I've a comfortable place to stay, but do my car have so, hope that policeman/MPPJ won't send me love letters.

4. When I've a relationship, there starts the argument and disagreement .

5. When I've food to eat, I still look forward for a fancier meal.

6. When I've money to spend, it is always not enough to pay my debts.

7. When I've plenty of time, I always wasted in front of my square box.

See I've what I want, although it is not luxurious and problem-free, but GOD has provided all this for me.

All I need to do is GIVE THANKS

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Tips to cultivate a LIFETIME JOURNAL READING HABIT

Tips to cultivate a LIFETIME JOURNAL READING HABIT (modified by Joanna) ^-^

1. Set times.

- Read for at least 30 minutes everyday

2. Always carry a reading material.

- Wherever you go, take a journal with you.

3. Make a list.

- Keep a list of all the great books/published paper you want to read.

Tech trick: create a Gmail account for your book list, and email the address every time you hear about a good book. Now your inbox will be your reading list. When you’ve read a book, file it under “Done”. If you want, you can even reply to the message (to the same address) with notes about the book, and those will be in the same conversation thread, so now your Gmail account is your reading log too.

4. Find a quiet place.

- Find a place in your home where you can sit in a comfortable chair (don’t lay down unless you’re going to sleep) and curl up with a good book without interruptions. There should be no television or computer near the chair to minimize distractions, and no music or noisy family members/roommates.

5. Reduce television/Internet.

- Try cutting back on TV or Internet consumption.

6. Have a library day.

- Make it a weekly trip.

7. Make it pleasurable.

- Make your reading time your favorite time of day. Have some good tea or coffee while you read, or another kind of treat. Get into a comfortable chair with a good blanket. Read during sunrise or sunset, or at the beach.

8. Set a high goal.

- Tell yourself that you want to read 100 journals this year (or some other number like that).

9. Have a reading hour or reading day.

- If you turn off the TV or Internet in the evening, you could have a set hour (perhaps just after dinner) for you to read each night. Or you could do a reading day, when you read for practically the whole day. It’s super fun.

10. Summarize the paper that you have read.

- This help you to understand the journal better and it helps during the thesis writing time.

My babies

Oh, I have babies? Don't even heard that I was married. Am I pregnant?

No no, the babies i mentioned is not the baby that come out from my womb.

These babies are my master project.

I have to feed them, change their "diapers" every 2-3days once. My babies have some great potential. The are able to prolong some part of their body if I treated them some "special" food.

Wondering what my project about?

My project is to feed my babies with mushroom to make my baby happy and they will perform their potential which is prolong their "hands" and "legs". Their hands and legs have to be longer than their body. Each of them do not like to be alone. I will say that they are very united.

They won't stop holding their hands and legs, where ever they go, they go in a bunch. Everytime I have to be very harsh to separate them apart. Sounds cruel huh...

Every living things need networking even a micro-sized particle like bacteria or cell. Cells form in clump and perform duplication and also differentiation. Each of every cell holds am important role. If one of the cells refuse to do so, our whole body will corrupt.

Same to the society, every single human holds an important role. Each of us must work together towards the growth of the country, the society and the whole world.

Every single job or role you are holding now, is making a contribution for the society. Same as my babies, every single cells makes contribution to my project. In fact, they are neural cells, they are the cells which form our brains, our nervous system. Without the cell, we are BRAINLESS, we cannot think. We produce electric pulse to communicate to our whole body. Just like we connect to one another by cell phone, email or facebook.

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF. YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE.

Review

Read back my previous blog, and dig back those memories hidden in the deepest corner of my brain.

Yesterday was a present, just like looking back at old days photo. It this all the ages that we have past. All the things that past, is just to make us stronger.

Looking towards tomorrow, and wish to have deeper relation with you, My LORD, My Master.

Merdeka Day

Have been so long I never update my blog, today is national day. My national day wish is I'll update my blog more frequent. Let's give me a big applause.

Yes, before I forgot, First of all, I would like to wish my beloved country "Malaysia" Happy 53th Birthday. And more towards 1 Malaysia, but not racism. I pray that every single organism in Malaysia will practice 1 Malaysia. Malaysia Boleh!!!

Today, is indeed a holiday but unfortunately I spent my whole day just whithin 2km distance from my house. Glad that my house is just, ops, my condominium is just next to Tropicana City Mall. So, I can do shopping more orten than you guys. Nyek Nyek Nyek.

Thanks God that Gilbert is back to PJ and will only back to work at today late evening, so, I have someone to spend with. But, it doesn't seems to be glad, we ended up web-bing at home.

After a boring and unfruitful morning, we decide to do something more meaningful. We had a stirring discussion of where to go. Finally, both of us agreed to go for a movie. But, what show should we go for?

Again, we back to our "square box" and start searching up and down for a nice show. Finally, we decide to watch

Step up 3.

Release Date: 26 August 2010

Language: English

Genre: Drama, Dance

Running Time: 1 hour 47 minutes

Director: John Chu

Cast: Adam Sevani, Alyson Stoner, Rick Malambri, Sharni Vinson.

Synopsis: New York's intense street dancing underground comes alive in eye-popping Digital 3D in the third installment of the "Step Up" franchise as the raw, passion-fuelled culture goes global. A tight-knit group of street dancers, including Luke (Rick Malambri) and Natalie (Sharni Vinson), team up with NYU freshman Moose (Adam Sevani), and find themselves pitted against the world's best breakdancers in a high-stakes showdown that will change their lives forever.

I will say that this is an excellent show. Value for the money and men, the 3D effect is superb. Just like they are dancing just right in front of your sight. Like their hands are going to poke your eyeball. Huh, sounds scary?

For those who like break-dance, you are not going to miss any single movement done by them. They are fantastic dancer. The only show that all the audience will watch for the credits of the movie. None of us willing to move our heavy butt off from the chair.

Rating : 9/10