Friday, October 29, 2010

Assignment 2: Love

At the end of the relationship, only I realized the love that I thought is Love is not Love.

Love comprised of forgive, understand, care, faith, protect and others. But I used to think that Love is as long as the person is beside you, you can hug him, can kiss him. But that is not true love. Yes, of course all that intimate action will trigger your heartbeat to beat faster, but that is because of touching that course the hormone to increase the heartbeat. I would say is a part of love.


But real love is without touching, you can feel protected, joy, cared, love.

Always talk and share with your partners. Understand them. Understand the way he wants to be loved

Thursday, October 28, 2010

男人与女人

男人女人被吸引因为我们的不同。男女的不同让我们受伤害。

1. 男人所需是被尊重-肯定。
女人所需的被爱-关怀。

2. 男人是主动者 - 主动去爱,主动去领导
女人是回应者 - 顺服
-->一个愿意顺服的是有上帝的女人
-->一个愿意顺服的是有智慧的女人

3. 欣赏异性和我们不一样的地方
-->不是去改变他

4. 男人不过问别人的事
女人需要详细的解释

5. 男人看事情不斤斤计较
女人关心细节

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Assignment 1: Independent

Termination of relationship followed by loneliness. Take it easy and learn to be independent.

Life is s test, life is a trust.

GOD had put this test on me, yet, I have to trust GOD for he is the provider.

Friday, October 22, 2010

My students and I

I've 2 tuition kids for almost one year. By appearance they are very cute and nice looking just like their mother. But, inside, they are very naughty.

As usual, I went to tuition today. 5pm I reached their home and waiting for the elder sister to come. Elder sister came to me and say: "Teacher, can Claire go first?" "Either of u both come first will do, discuss with her and talk to her nicely" I replied.

Once the sister went up stairs and open the door, Claire started to shout and cry. The maid went up and brought her down. She was pissed and keep dialing to her mom and intended to make some complains.

After a while, she talk to me, she said :"I hate you, you told my daddy that I'm eating during tuition lesson." Great, you ate during tuition class and your maid went and told and the opened chocolate wrapping, nuts that thrown away that prove to your daddy YOU'RE EATING CHOCOLATE during tuition time. And now, you put all the blames on me? I feel sad that children nowadays they are not responsible on the things they did nor they said.

After the tuition done, she showed me the badges that she did in church, "Our God is so Powerful", "God is trustworthy" and so. She asked me, why God don't want to help her? God helps everyone except her? She said, "because God don't want to help me because I'm naughty and now because God don't want to help me that's why I'm naughty."

"God don't want to help her because she is naughty and now because God don't want to help her that's why She is naughty"

Children is very innocent, but these words reminds me again, did I put the blame on others?

After we sinned, do we say, "yes, I did it" or we will think " No, No, is Satan the one who make me fall."

Satan will do all the thins to lure us and set us apart from GOD, like how the snake tempted Eve and Adam in Genesis.

But the person who decide and conduct the sins.

Before putting blame on others, look into our heart, who actually cause IT.