生死

人的生死掌握在神的手中。

最近，我的伙伴，也是我大学时的同学。她是位天主教徒。她与亲戚们的关系都很亲密。

今天的农历新年，不幸的她表哥因为心脏病，安息主怀了。

不久后，他的外甥女又因为一些缘故，成了植物人一段时间。

最近，很不幸的，她的表姐也患了末期癌症。

她曾经埋怨为什么这一切连续不断的发生在他的家庭。我想要安慰她，帮她。用圣经的话语帮她。当我和他分享时，他都明白，他都了解。只不过情绪不知道该怎么反映。

我写这篇，是想要说，生命是脆弱的。

离开自己的驾驶盘，让神去掌管我们的生命。因为，我们的生命是神说特别拣选的。

因为凡要救自己生命的，必丧掉生命，
凡为我丧掉生命的，必得着生命。
{马太福音十六章廿五节}

保守你的心

你要保守你心，勝過保守一切，因為一生的果效，是由心發出。（箴四23）

Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. （Proverbs 4:23)

主啊保守我的心

，胜过保守我的一切

．因为一生的果效

，是由我的心里发出

．哦恳求主洁净我心

，为我造一颗清洁的心

．恳求圣灵住在我里面

，使我重新有正直的灵

庆生

今天是你的生日。第一次以普通朋友的身份祝贺你。

感觉怎样呢？

没什么感觉也。

只是多年前set了的reminder 在半个前，每5分钟响一次。因为曾经的我怕错过了你的生日。

或许等你生日的来临已变成了一种习惯。

感情会变，可是习惯难改。

Assignment 2: Love

At the end of the relationship, only I realized the love that I thought is Love is not Love.

Love comprised of forgive, understand, care, faith, protect and others. But I used to think that Love is as long as the person is beside you, you can hug him, can kiss him. But that is not true love. Yes, of course all that intimate action will trigger your heartbeat to beat faster, but that is because of touching that course the hormone to increase the heartbeat. I would say is a part of love.

But real love is without touching, you can feel protected, joy, cared, love.

Always talk and share with your partners. Understand them. Understand the way he wants to be loved

男人与女人

男人女人被吸引因为我们的不同。男女的不同让我们受伤害。

1. 男人所需是被尊重-肯定。

女人所需的被爱-关怀。

2. 男人是主动者 - 主动去爱，主动去领导

女人是回应者 - 顺服

-->一个愿意顺服的是有上帝的女人

-->一个愿意顺服的是有智慧的女人

3. 欣赏异性和我们不一样的地方

-->不是去改变他

4. 男人不过问别人的事

女人需要详细的解释

5. 男人看事情不斤斤计较

女人关心细节

Assignment 1: Independent

Termination of relationship followed by loneliness. Take it easy and learn to be independent.

Life is s test, life is a trust.

GOD had put this test on me, yet, I have to trust GOD for he is the provider.

My students and I

I've 2 tuition kids for almost one year. By appearance they are very cute and nice looking just like their mother. But, inside, they are very naughty.

As usual, I went to tuition today. 5pm I reached their home and waiting for the elder sister to come. Elder sister came to me and say: "Teacher, can Claire go first?" "Either of u both come first will do, discuss with her and talk to her nicely" I replied.

Once the sister went up stairs and open the door, Claire started to shout and cry. The maid went up and brought her down. She was pissed and keep dialing to her mom and intended to make some complains.

After a while, she talk to me, she said :"I hate you, you told my daddy that I'm eating during tuition lesson." Great, you ate during tuition class and your maid went and told and the opened chocolate wrapping, nuts that thrown away that prove to your daddy YOU'RE EATING CHOCOLATE during tuition time. And now, you put all the blames on me? I feel sad that children nowadays they are not responsible on the things they did nor they said.

After the tuition done, she showed me the badges that she did in church, "Our God is so Powerful", "God is trustworthy" and so. She asked me, why God don't want to help her? God helps everyone except her? She said, "because God don't want to help me because I'm naughty and now because God don't want to help me that's why I'm naughty."

"God don't want to help her because she is naughty and now because God don't want to help her that's why She is naughty"

Children is very innocent, but these words reminds me again, did I put the blame on others?

After we sinned, do we say, "yes, I did it" or we will think " No, No, is Satan the one who make me fall."

Satan will do all the thins to lure us and set us apart from GOD, like how the snake tempted Eve and Adam in Genesis.

But the person who decide and conduct the sins.

Before putting blame on others, look into our heart, who actually cause IT.